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HOOKUP BUDDIES

August 05, 2014

Soooo let's talk about something.  Hookup buddies, aka adult sleepovers, friends with benefits, no strings attached, or, more commonly known as, fuck buddies.  When you're in your twenties, this shit becomes real.  In college, you shack at some guys frat or his trashed house that reeks of beer and weed (also the same scents of a frat house) where he has two roommates who also brought a girl home the night before.  That is shacking.  Shacking: drunkingly going home with someone in college where everyone just fucks around...raging roommates, house parties, dorms, frats, bullshit, usually within walking distance from your house.  

We feel as though "hookup buddies" is the mature version of shacking.  Basically you both have full time jobs, you're grownups now, mature(ish), financial on your own and what not.  It's more of a "I don't have time to date (or haven't found the right one) but would love to occasionally have a man/woman to be with every once in a while".  We all have needs people.  What's entertaining is when both of you know that you are each others hookup buddy, then it just becomes a fun little game of drunk texting some sort of code word to see if you want to "hang out".

While normally this behavior is looked down upon, we see no harm in having a sexual partner.  People in relationships have a sexual partner...let's not deprive the single people of that.  As long as you're safe and you know your "friend" is clean of any STDs (seriously, check that shit out) than we support you having adult sleepovers to do adult things.

Great talk.

XX




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